Monday, April 9, 2012

Love your Parents

Today on my way to office, I noticed  a construction site. Due to slow moving traffic, I happened to notice a bit more than usual. It was a tall wide building, and workers were busy doing their job, catering to their responsibilities. For an instant, they looked like those dedicated ants slogging to make their home. Thats how they looked to me as I gazed at that huge building they had almost built. The funny difference is, ants build their own house for a living, and these poor workers do it for someone else.. Probably for people like us, who live or work there in full luxury.

     Well thats how the system is, its the hard truth. I was hoping they get to earn their living well and while I was thinking all these, just around the corner, I saw a crying baby sitting on the stones alone. Mind you that its Hyderabad I am talking about and it was 1 PM in the afternoon. It was very hot, around 40 plus degrees centigrade. The baby was holding a almost torn teddy bear, small one and was sitting shirtless on a tiny underwear (probably), or a sort of a boxer short.

This little boy could be around 2 or 3. Thats all, not more than that and he looked very pretty although he was dark. There was lot of dust on his face and overgrown hair. It was indicative he was playing with mud. I guessed his mother could be one of the workers and I was right. I parked my car left as something caught my attention. I saw his mother requesting her supervisor to go to her child, but she was asked to do one more way up carry something all the way up. ( I am guessing so). And the baby was crying so hard, probably he needed water or food. 5 min later, his father came with a broken bottle of milk, and about a quarter of a bottle was filled. He just kept the bottle there and he left to work.

I was very hurt seeing all of this. It was hard on me to see such a miserable state. For this reason I want to be something better so that I could give people better. I ended up getting out of my car, walking up to the baby, giving him water bottle which I had kept. He drank water sobbing in sorrow and he was okay in a while. I had a chocolate with me, which looked better in the hands of this tiny cute guy. His parents managed to come down seeing me holding him and they were also very embarrassed at their situation. I couldnt say much, I just gave them some money and in my broken telugu I asked them to get him clothes and a better water bottle. They explained to me something, I couldnt understand much. I am sure they were very thankful, I walked out and came to work probably 10 min late which my boss wouldnt mind.

I kept thinking, so much about this life. How thankful should we be to our parents. We are what we are today is always because of the sacrifices they have made. They have taken all the hardships so that we get the best. Even though they had their work to do, this couple managed to come down and do their best. If one feels that they didnt get the best of their parents, then that person is wrong. Every parent makes sure their child gets their best always. Some kids get everything, some dont get enough, some dont get anything at all... but, for a parent, he gives his kids everything he has got. He invests all his time and effort and does whats best for his child. Its the universal truth..

I couldnt do much to the baby or to their parents. But I learnt two things. 1. I should love my parents more, not get busy with life and 2. I should be a good parent too..

Friday, April 6, 2012

Simple things

Some of the world's most complex problems have been solved by the most simplest of the solutions or principles. For example, e=mcsquare defines so much about a complex problem on Energy and gravity. Its a law of nature that when a complex problem is thrown at, it definitely has a very simple solution which we are to invent or discover.

In our own ways, we are scientists of our lives. We discover, we learn, implement, invent new ways and sometimes we have to prove ourselves. We are also Entrepreneurs of an organization called "My Life" and its all depends on pretty much how we make or break things. We also have our own Operations, a human resource management system running, a database, infrastructure etc.,., One can relate to what system that exists in this world today are been driven out of our own lives. It all starts within us.

Out of all this, the most complex of our problems are on How we lead our life, what we make of it and how well we see it through till the end. It is indeed the surface of all other challenges that lie beneath this complex-est problem. The answer is simple, very simple actually. Just stay focused.

If I relate my own life to be a business organization, then, I can assume to have customers. Customers are all the people around me. The work that I do, the value that I create for them so that I grow, is my service to them. The only way I could be happy is by staying focused on giving my customers a good product, greater service, support and deliver outstanding customer experience. That way, I dont have to worry whether or not I grow or fall. I am giving my 100%, I am confident I will grow no matter what. Give your customers the best, you will get back the best. Customers run a company dont they? Customers are everything! Its simple as that. you want examples? Google, Apple, etc.,.,
So focus on your work, focus on the people around you.. focus on how best you can deliver to every one. In technical terms, you are an interface to your mind and peoples' mind. you drive whats called "destiny" and you receive whats called "excellency" by doing it well. Self evaluate how good you are by the people around you.

In real life, there is nothing called "free" and dont translate your fears into escapisms and depend on facebook for pass time, movies for entertainment, friends for sympathy.... face it!! face it, win it.. LIVE IT!!
Make the best out of every minute...
Thanks for reading, :)